DTF or DTR
When you are defining your relationship, you might already have been in a anger mood, because if you are also looking for hookup, you won’t be asking this question. Well, it is your partner who give you this question, you should start digging out answer from there. Unfortunately, sometimes it can be awkward to ask such question in a certain circumstance. In this case, you might find yourself studying every emoji and text he sent you, learning the way he talked to you, obsessed with his social media to see if there is anything that can be related you your existence. All of these you do is trying to find some trace to prove that he really falls for you, but you are too afraid to come to him directly because you are scare of the possible truth. Here are some tips to find out.
When does he text you?
After he finished drinking with his other companion, you might find your phone ringing in the midnight with his message coming. If you find he only text you occasionally just to keep in touch with you, if you find he would occasionally send you message, praising your outfit or appearance, then there is huge chance that you are just one of his hookup candidates. However, if he text you every morning and night, asking how are do doing for the day, about your whereabouts and what you are doing right now, he might be serious with you. Sometimes it might annoy you, but that is the symptom of serious relationship, not one night dating.
When do you usually meet?
When he wants to meet you, how many text he would usually send you? This is a very good indication of how much he cares about you, that is respect. For example, if he suddenly throws you tons of messages and begs you to abandon your current plan to be with him, then this guy is not your guardian. If it happens one or two times, then it might be somewhat romantic by surprising you, but he often does that, then he just in the time of needing you or suddenly in the mood for a one night hookup.
Where do you usually hang out?
If the only place you have ever been to together is his place or some place private, then you are probably just someone who is for his sexual satisfactory. However, if he invites you to meet his friends, to go to party with him, or go shopping together, movie, dinner, etc, then he is definitely serious with you no matter you met on hook up app or in real life.