What does girls think when you first hookup with each other?

We girls have often heard such questions from our male friends “ what on earth she is thinking when I try to hookup with her. I just wish I could get into her little pretty head to find out. That might make it easier for me to hit up on her.” No matter you are hooking up with someone in real life or trying to get a girl out to meet from tinder hookup app, girls mind might be one of the most complicated and fickle things on earth. Every girl thinks differently in various situations. Are you interested in getting in girls’ head when you first hookup with each other. Don’t bother. Here I would like to tell you how we usually think when hookup with guys.

What is he trying to do? This is the first thing come into our mind when we are approached by a guy. Is he looking to get me into bed or develop a relationship with me? When we talk to a guy for the first time, we would guess in our head what he wants. Hookup or relationship? By doing this, we are able to find out if his expectation matches with ours. Given I am looking for relationships and I am approached by a guy who is looking for hookups. If this guy talks about sexual stuff with me after meeting me for just a few minutes, then I might just excuse myself and go away. But people who are looking for relationships does not mean they are not down for a quality night with the right person. Therefore, do not address your intention too clearly when she knows nothing about you, even if you are looking for one night hookup and she is into relationships. Nothing is constant, especially when it comes to people. But you should also clear with her what you are looking for before she invests true feelings in your relationship to prevent anyone getting hurt. Another situation, if you are looking for relationships while she is only into hookups, then the decision lies with you. Whether or not you want to hookup with her.

Is he safe for me? As a girl, we often are considered as the disadvantaged group of people. We also realize that deep in our heart, as much as many of us hate to admit it. It is very important for us to protect ourselves from potential danger. When we are with a guy whom we first meet, we would evaluate in our heart about what kind of person you are, because we were raised up with the inertial thinking that stranger equals danger, especially in the circumstances of a girl with a stranger guy. You cannot blame us for being too careful with our safety. Therefore, for guys who are trying to hookup with a girl, you must let the girl feel that you are safe and you have no danger to them. How to prove that? Try not to take us to quite and secluded places where we could imagine a horror scene in our mind. Try to act as a gentleman. Especially for guys who are trying to ask a girl out from apps like tinder for trans hookup, do not pick a place where we do not familiar with and do not ask us to your house when we haven’t meet for the first time. We might refuse you out of scare.

Is he health and free from STDs? These days, so many people are caught with STDs by sleeping with unfamiliar people. Everyone is very sensitive on this issue and people who have such diseases are also being very cautious. Some of them even intentionally hide the truth away until we are diagnosed with it and find out this way. Therefore, it is vital for guys to address whether you are clean voluntarily. It might be a little awkward for us to ask. So just save the trouble and say it on your initiatives.